Friday, May 16, 2008

Which Cruise Should We Take?

I booked a 10 night cruise for this fall on Celebrity's Constellation with the following itinerary:


Fort Lauderdale
At Sea
At Sea
St Thomas
St Kitts
Barbados
St Lucia
St Maarten
At Sea
At Sea
Fort Lauderdale

The cabin is an Aft Concierge Class (photos of the cabin and balcony are posted in an earlier post from our Hawaii cruise).

I've recently come upon a good price for a 15 night Panama Canal on Holland America's Westerdam with the following itinerary:

San Diego
At Sea
Cabo San Lucas
At Sea
Acapulco
Huatulco
Puerto Chiapas, Mexico
Puerto Quetzal, Guatamala
At Sea
Puntarenas Costa Rica
At Sea
Full Transit of the Panama Canal
Catagena, Colombia
At Sea
At Sea
Fort Lauderdale

The cabin category is a Deluxe Verandah Suite (I've posted photos of this cabin category from our cruise to the Mexican Riviera).

Both of these cruises are very appealing to my husband and I and I've been doing my best trying to dissect every nook and cranny hoping to make a decision before the end of this weekend.
Of course we cannot do both of these cruises so one has to go.....

Do you have any suggestions/opinions?  I'd like to hear (really I would).

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Sky Watch Friday

This was the sun setting near Puerto Vallarta.

Which kind of person are you?

I hijacked this from my Daughter-In-Law's Blog, thought it provokes thought.

Dreary or Cheery?
I tend to be dreary, always look at the worst something, someone can be. Nothing ever ends up as bad as I can dream it up.

Mellow or Mad?
Mad, I'd like to say screw it all and just go with the flow but that isn't me, not going to happen. Even though there isn't anything I can do about it now, I'm pissed off at what happened to me as a child growing up.

Calm or Crazy?
Crazy. I'm easily set off.

Loosey Goosey or Anal Retentive?
Anal Retentive. I expect perfection (in others but not myself).

Bold or Bashful?
Bold and Aggressive. I learned early in life to get out there or be swallowed.

Frozen - Cold - Cool - Tempid - Warm - Hot - Ablaze?
Cool. I don't like getting too involved and I think people are always feeling sorry for themselves. Life's tough, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and move forward, tomorrow is another day.

Silly or Stoic?
Silly. Life is too short for laughter not to be the main ingredient.

Glossy, Satin, or Flat?
Flat. I don't like reflection.

Free-For-All or Fussy?
Free-For-All (most of the time). I think each day and circumstance is new and different and requires me to easily and quickly change gears.

Charging or Retreating?
Charging. Lets get it over and done. Why wait?


What kind of person are you?

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

What traits do you look for in a mate?

Mom and Dad at Caymans



My daughter is almost 29 and is not married nor has she ever been married. She is currently dating a guy that "We" think is ideal for her - which brings me to the question(s) - What traits did you look for in a mate?

I've been married for a good while (31+ years) but in my day, when I was in search of a husband, I wanted the following (not listed in any particular order)

1. Older than me by 4+ years (we know that it takes a man longer to mature)
2. Had a college degree (I didn't)
3. Was stable, not a job hopper and preferably had a job with a future and a pension (we had them in the olden days - my father told me to look for this).
4. Had a sense of humor.
5. Wanted a family although not too many kids
6. Loved me
7. Could hold his own in an argument
8. Didn't have an aggressive temperament.
9. Liked sex enough to want "it" at least 5x a week (that was then and now is another story)
10. Would eat almost anything as I developed my cooking skills

What did you look for? Please feel free to add to this list.

Monday, May 12, 2008

Our Cruising Experiences

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In November we are booked to take another cruise and because we enjoy cruising so much, I'd like to find out who else we might have cruising in common with.


Have you ever been on a cruise, if so, how many?
I've been on 9

How long was the cruise?
The longest cruise we've taken has been 14 nights

Where did the cruise go?
We've been to the Eastern and Western Caribbean, Southern Caribbean, Mexican Riviera, Hawaii

What kind of cabin do you book and why?
We've booked inside, outside, balcony, mini suites, and suites - of course a suite is fabulous but the longer the cruise the more expensive the cabin so most of the time we will book at least a balcony

What do you like about a cruise vacation?
Doing as much or as little as you like, it's perfect for a family vacation with multiple generations as there is something for everyone.

What cruise lines have you cruised with?
Carnival (1)
Commodore (they are no longer in business) (1)
Holland America (3)
Celebrity (3)
Norwegian Cruise line (1)

What is your favorite cruise line and why?
Holland America followed by Celebrity - Holland America because of it's older client base and quiet atmosphere along with the fabulous Indonesian Staff. Celebrity because we love the ship design and entertainment.


Below is the cabin and balcony on our cruise to Hawaii (Celebrity's Infinity), this was a Concierge Class Aft Balcony. We have the same type of cabin/balcony booked for November.

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Below is the Deluxe Verandah Suite we had on Holland America's Oosterdam to the Mexican Riviera and photos of the same class of cabin on HAL's Maasdam. The Deluxe Verandah Suites have access to a wide array of suite privileges that further enhance the cruise like priority embarkation/debarkation, Neptune Lounge, Concierge, priority dining seating, laundry and dry cleaning throughout the cruise is included.

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Below is outside cabin on Commodore Cruise Line (there were 4 of us in this "closet" but we still had a great time. We didn't spend much time in the cabin (neither did the kids) and it suited us just fine, this was 8 years ago. The ship hit a horrible storm in the gulf coming back and the ship pitched and rocked and rolled so bad, I held onto the supports to the bunkbeds and prayed we wouldn't turn over......I was seriously scared. Our window/port hole was so near the water that during the storm it was under water the entire time.

Mom and Dad life jacket

This is a mini suite on NCL's Sun. The cabin and bathroom itself was very nice and very comfortable but the balcony was a joke for a mini suite. The balcony is the top right. We also didn't like the layout of the ship but we thought the food was good and the entertainment was enjoyable.

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This is a mini suite on Holland America's Volendam, it was very comfortable. The Volendam is an older class ship but has been updated and is still a great cruise value.

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I don't think I have photos of the first 2 cabins we ever cruised in. My first cruise was with a sister-is-law (that isn't anymore) and was on a Carnival ship that isn't used anymore, talk about closet, OMG!! That cabin was so small, you had to sit on the toilet to use the shower!!

My second cruise was with my family on Celebrity's Meridian (which is no longer in service) and was an inside cabin, no window, and had no more space than the one I took with my SIL.

I've had a great time on every cruise I've ever taken.
I'm just pickier about my cruises these days - I want a nicely appointed cabin and bathroom along with a decent sized covered balcony. We spend a great deal of time in our cabin and on our verandah and therefore it will make or break our cruise experience.


I'd love to hear what your cruise experiences have been like - maybe there are other lines and cabin categories I'd like to try.

Edible Arrangement

My Son and Daughter-In-Law (and Grandson Rudy) sent me this for Mother's Day (got it this morning just in time to enjoy with breakfast - Mmmmmm).

At one time I worked for Psychiatrists that would get these from Drug Reps and they were so indulgent.  It's so nice to get one for myself :).  For me, this is so much better than flowers (cause in addition to looking at them, I get to eat them).

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Happy Mother's Day

To all women..........Happy Mother's Day! Even if you are without children you will still Mother someone at sometime in your life, and I thank you.
Today will be a gloriously busy one for me. I have finished dropping my EC's for the day, and need to get ready for a family luncheon and then my daughter and her boyfriend are taking us to dinner this evening......I told her good Mexican Food (plenty of places here in San Antonio for that) and a place that has really tasty Margaritas (thanks San Antonio for the ability to eat and drink and enjoy every bite and swallow). I got a beautiful email from my DIL the other day as she was afraid with my son's residency schedule that he wouldn't make contact and she wanted to express her feelings.
From my dear husband I got a new Coach handbag and it's beautiful (Coach bags are one of my weaknesses) although he gave me the bag yesterday because we don't give gifts for "holidays" and he could say he didn't give it to me for Mother's Day. What a Sweetie Pie, I think I'll keep him another 30 something years!!

Saturday, May 10, 2008

When Routine is Snagged

I'm assuming other people encountered problems with Blogger this morning, am I right?

Each morning I look forward to a routine of sorts, get myself some coffee and sit down at the computer to first do my morning Entrecard drops and then get another cup of coffee and sit down to start my regular reads.  I then go about making beds, and vacuming and general pick up around the house before I sit down to do my commenting and read other blogs I've happened upon during the time I've been commenting (seeing other comments).
It's a routine, something I enjoy doing, something as necessary as coffee and I wasn't able to do that this morning earlier - Yeeee Gads Google/Blogger, don't you know what you've done to my day!!!!!!

Friday, May 9, 2008

New Photos of Rudy

My Daughter-In-Law sent me some new photos of Rudy today........he's at 12 pounds already!!
I understand he's also starting to loose his baby fuzz hair. I know my husband and daughter are hoping his hair comes in dark (like theirs) but what I want is for him just to have a healthy head of hair. Rudy's own Daddy had light brown hair while he was young and it got darker and darker until it came in almost black in his early 20's (he'll be 30 next month). OMG!!! Did I just admit to having a 30 year old child......I'm getting old!!!!

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My Cleaning

This is what I've spent the last 2 days doing, I cleaned my kitchen and breakfast room head to toe and in every nook and cranny.  Took everything out of the cabinets and drawers and cleaned, cleaned, cleaned.  Anything I hadn't used in 2 years got boxed and dear husband took it to Goodwill.
I have a giant kitchen with lots of counter space, cabinets, and drawers.
I'd love to someday replace the counters with granite or similar but there is so much of it that it's going to be an expensive endeavor.








Friday Fillins for May 9, 2008



1. The Margarita had an extra secret ingredient; it was Sugar!
2. The Sun Was Peaking through my window.
3. Right now, I need Sanity and a Margarita (yes it's 9am).
4. No Where is where I went Thursday night; it was Boring.
5. Why does My body hurt so much?
6. All I can think of is the Sweet Face of my GrandSon Rudy.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to Continuing to Clean, tomorrow my plans include Continuing to Clean and Sunday, I want to Relax!

Thursday, May 8, 2008

13 Non-Clothing Items I Always Pack When I Travel

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1. Shampoo
2. Deodorant
3. Shaver
4. Blow Dryer
5. 4 Wooden Clothes Pins
6. Make Up (blush, mascara, eye liner, lipstick)
7. Laptop Computer
8. 2 Books (one deep, one shallow)
9. iPod
10. Aveeno for hands
11. Duct Tape (I've used this for repairing luggage, for identification, for holding drapes back)
12. Trash Bag and Ziplock Bags (dirty laundry, liquid anything)
13. Medications

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Wednesday, May 7, 2008

DNA Testing - Would YOU Want To Know?

I remember a few years ago when this topic was in hot debate, we started to worry about whether insurance companies would refuse to insure someone because of a genetic predisposition.

Now the debate is on whether you would like to know if you have the genes for say, colon cancer early.
Would I choose to fall in love, marry, have children, buy a home, etc if I knew I couldn't see it all through, that some genetic mutation was going to keep me from living happily ever after?

And does this keep the earlier fears from again rearing their ugly heads and because of this information, we are refused health insurance, or life insurance, or a mortgage, or car insurance.

If the medical community could guarantee me a cure and the government could guarantee me that I could get insurance and such, then maybe.
BUT
If having this genetic defect was going to impact my life then no, I wouldn't want to know, I'd like to stay unaware and happy and deal with the disease when/if I had to.

What do you think?

I know you've heard of this

Today while in the PX (Post Exchange), in the check out lane next to the one we were in, an older man (mid to late 70's) was in line and behind him was a young PFC (Private First Class) who when he was getting out his wallet, realized he didn't have enough cash nor did he have his debit card with him........the older man promptly turned to the cashier and offered to pay the young soldier's tab (was only a couple bucks).
Wow, how nice and what a great way to say thank you.

Have you seen this done and if so, where?

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Life and Death - do you take it personally?

Taking life personally is the ego dancing with Maya - a dance of shadows, unaware of their true nature. It's extremely difficult, maybe impossible, for the ego to fathom this, because the ego imagines itself as real. That is its nature. However, in reality it is at one with Maya and is an illusory identity."


"It's Not Personal, Really"
or Beyond the Walls of the Individual and Collective Personality

by Michael the LightLounge Guy

"Everything that has a beginning comes to an end." Marcus Fabius Quintilian (35 CE -100 CE)

Marcus Quintilian was born about 600 years after the Buddha, but he came to the same conclusion as the Enlightened One. Buddha said it a little differently — that all forms pass — but the meaning is the same. Until recently, most people agreed with this, except they thought that the stars and the soul were eternal. Now we know that stars are born, live, and die just like the rest of us. Whether the soul is eternal is still debatable.

One answer is this: Souls exist — maybe in Heaven, hell, purgatory, the astral plane, or some other dimension, but in any case, they live somewhere in the universe. And the universe, having a beginning, will have an end. When that happens, everything within it will end too. That applies to souls and to God (if He has confined Himself to the universe, which is unlikely. Some religious traditions picture Him as such though).

This leads to an observation: if everything dies, then death is not personal. It is indiscriminate and impersonal. It is simply the end of a process, a process that begins at birth. Life, then, is like a length of string with birth at one end and death at the other. From this we can see that life is not personal. Just as death happens to everybody, so does life.

If life is impersonal, then everything is just happening. Nothing personal is taking place. Thoughts, feelings, planets, stars, and human bodies — they appear, unfold, and vanish, as if the universe was a magic theater, which in a way, it is.

The Ego and the Personal Life

Living personally is not a matter of how we act, but a state of mind, although that state directs our actions. The ego functions personally. This invites fear, disappointment, judgment, hate, and a host of other personality triggered emotions. It also provides doorways for negative astral influences to enter.

On the positive side, living personally is at once a luxury and an indulgence. We can feel triumphant, sensuous, elated, and a full range of sentiments. Once the thrill passes, though, we desire more and may slide into any number of negative feelings until the next fix arrives. The same applies to fame, wealth, and power, but we don't even have to lose them before we can feel empty. They don't equate to happiness.

Taking life personally is the ego dancing with Maya — a dance of shadows, unaware of their true nature. It's extremely difficult, maybe impossible, for the ego to fathom this, because the ego imagines itself as real. That is its nature. However, in reality it is at one with Maya and is an illusory identity.

Science has shed some light on our situation. String theory states that the universe is composed of incredibly small “strings” of light that cascade down from the tenth dimension. These sub-quantum light strings vibrate or “dance” and create the appearance of matter. Form, then, is dancing light, changing color, shape, and texture as time passes. The result is the momentary appearance of you and me and everything we see. We see light. We are light. Everything is light in infinite variation, one of God's favorite tools of creation. However, none of the forms, which compose this cosmic light show, are designed to last.

Implications of the Impersonal Life

Living impersonally is not a matter of how we act, but a state of mind. Our state of mind is in sync with our beliefs, and we base our actions on them. The impersonal life is the state of mind where life is not about us, or at least, not about who we commonly think we are. Life is simply happening. In this sense, knowing we (ego) don't really exist can be liberating. (If you're undergoing therapy, don't mention this to your therapist. If it slips out, be sure to add, “I don't exist, at least as who I think I am.”)

This can bring up the idea of free will. Free will appears to exist at a certain level. That level is the level where time is a reality. You choose to do something, do it, then it's done: free will. At the level of reality where everything simply is, though, time does not exist.

When you live impersonally and embody love and compassion, you hover in a state of awareness untouched by the cosmic drama. You know that nothing can be outside the all-encompassing All-That-Is. It's like this: existentially, all humans — our brothers and sisters — are in the same boat; Spirit is the one Ocean on which the boat floats. And the Ocean is imagining the boat. And its passengers.

A Broader Scope

There's more. Old age, adulthood, and childhood aren't personal, and neither is birth. We are born by either chance or fate. Science believes chance is responsible of course, but fate is just as likely. If fate is responsible, then our birth was recorded the moment the universe was created. The universe develops according to innate patterns within its structure, analogous to how DNA works. These patterns, which we call the Laws of Nature, unfold over time and are a function of divine intelligence. So far, we haven't uncovered all those laws.

For example, a law of physio-spiritual evolution may exist: As a form evolves, so does its spiritual awareness. Inversely, as a form's spiritual awareness evolves, so does its form. Form and awareness can be synergistic, evolving one another.

At a broader level, this law would not just govern individual species (like homo sapiens), but would measure the progress of all the species on the planet collectively. Homo sapiens would not be viewed strictly in isolation but holistically. They would be the leading edge of the collective consciousness of all Earth creatures. The sum awareness of all the planetary species, then, would be the manifest planetary consciousness and would represent the conscious awareness of the planetary body.

This law would apply to any planet that produced life forms.

For humans, the next major step in awareness may be to evolve from a personal existence to an impersonal one. Instead of separation, we would know unity. Instead of fighting, we would cooperate with one another. The seeds of these possibilities are already planted in our collective unconscious and are sprouting.

Conclusion

While many levels of understanding exist about what the impersonal life means, at a spiritual level everything is impersonal. It's all just happening. Behind this impersonal dance of form — the magnificent wonder of Creation — lies the essence of life itself. It is a Self of joy, love, and peace, which, unlike this story, has no beginning or end.



©Copyright 2008 by AlternativeApproaches.com

About the author: As a visionary philosopher, one of Michael - The LightLounge Guy's goals is to discover and present ways of expanding consciousness. Expanding one's consciousness improves the individual's quality of life - spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically - and helps build a new civilization. This is not strictly philosophy: anyone can be spiritually uplifted by practicing a path that is aligned to his or her spirit. More information is available at his web site, Light Lounge.


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EntreCard

As what is becoming the norm, it seems that EntreCard is on the fritz again and I'm unable to get my droppings done this morning.
I was told about a site this morning from a friend across the pond at Random Ramblings
that will help me drop 300 EntreCards in about 15 minutes if you ware using Firefox (which I use along with Safari). This will thrill me as it will give me the time to read all the wonderful blogs I have found (mostly during the time I was dropping EntreCards) that I don't have time to read because I'm dropping. I can't try it out because as I said earlier, EntreCard is not working well this morning.

****EDIT****
For the first time today I dropped 300 EntreCards but it wasn't easy as it was painfully slow and I must admit I'm disappointed that Tysblog with the idea of the 300 entrecard drops being easy thingy has it's flaws. First off there were sites that didn't even use EnterCard and then sites that were offline/closed/shutdown, whatever and then there were a few with annoying music (come on people, don't subject us to your music unless we choose to hear what you have listed online), and one in particular I found that was sexist.....I can take alot of crap but come on guys, women don't want to be hit in the face with crouches and tits - give us a break!
I hope the crap can be weeded through so that we can get our dropping done quickly and will have more time to read the blogs we love.
One more caveat, the amount of time it takes you with this system depends entirely on how fast of an internet connection you have. I have premium cable internet and it was painfully slow today (hopefully not always) although it was still faster than individual dropping.